What hurts?...
- letting go of a person you've just learned to love
- reminiscing the good times you shared together
- shielding your heart to love somebody
- trying to hide what you really feel
- trying to hide the tears that involuntarily fall from
your eyes
- loving a person too much
- giving up someone you never thought of giving up
- having the right love at the wrong time
- taking the risk to fall in love again
- hiding your relationship from someone else
- controlling your feelings to avoid hurting a friend
- Thinking of him every waking and sleeping
moment
knowing all the while that he never even thinks a
single thought of you...
- letting go, because everytime you see the
person, you only fall deeper
- holding back only to find out when it's too
late,you both
felt the same way, but were only scared to lose
each other so
much that you didn't let the feelings out
- falling in love with someone you didn't mea n to
fall in love with
- finding the perfect guy with only one problem, he
doesn't love you
- helping the one you love "make ligaw" to your
friend
- seeing the one you love crying for someone else
- the waiting also hurts like hell
- Having to hear "... I've met someone"
- Agreeing to his wish to 'just be friends'.
- asking his freedom back because 'he'd be
happier with her'
- Asking you to 'forget that everything happened'
and be normal? friends again.
- you're only treated as a little sister
- sharing his future plans for the girl with you
- You stopped being friends because his girlfriend
asked him to.
- being denied in front of people
- telling you lies where he'd been when actually, he
was with a
'new friend' or an 'old flame' - he told you he'd be
leaving you t
o return to his ex
- breaking someone's heart
- Fighting for that one thing that would make you
happy that is, holding on to a person who can not
guarantee you his commitment unless he fix
himself...then, you are left hanging for
the moment...then he says, time will tell, but you
still decided to hope in him and trust him... -
PRETENDING you're OK when inside you're dying
- PRETENDING to be strong.... and
RECOGNIZING your weakness
- Lying in bed each night, thinking of that special
person you can never have...
- Being with someone you can't actually love...
- Pretending you don't love a person whom you
actually love...
- Being in love...
- letting go even if you really don't want to...
having
no right to
say you are hurting because it was your decision
- Seeing the person you love hurt because of
you...
and not being
able to help that person...
- having the courage to say I LOVE YOU to the
person you love
and finding out afterwards that things will never be
the same
again when he doesn't treat you with the same
closeness as before
- having to face the fact that someone is capable
of
completely
destroying the wall that you have set for yourself,
leaving you
weak and vulnerable
- admitting that you love someone despite his
imperfections
- finding out that the more you try to hate him, the
more you
end up loving him, perhaps even more than before
- Realizing how stupid your mistakes was that led
to your break-up.
- the thought that this guy, used to really love you
and you
loved him as well but you didn't give enough and
he
gave up on you
- Sharing the one you love with SOMEBODY
else..."
- Making a promise and realizing that when the
time has come
for that promise to be delivered, the commitment
is
no longer there.
- The hardest thing about love - believing it exists.
- After you've been hurt, learning to forgive,
learning
to trust and love again.