by
love-it-03
@ 2006-04-11 - 10:33:56

1. What is the major attraction?
Infatuation: physical appearance ( pogi/maganda kasi sya eh)
Love: total personality ( mabait, totoo, trustworthy)
2. How much factors attract?
Infatuation: FEW qualities of the person
Love: MANY qualities of the person
3. How does it start?
Infatuation: tends to start FAST
Love: starts SLOWLY
4. How consistent is your level of interest?
Infatuation: interest in each other COMES AND GOES ( crush mo sya ngaun...pero samakalawa ndi na )
Love: relationship tends to EVEN OUT ( Love mo sya ngaun...at un ay pangmatagalan na )
5. How does it affect your personality?
Infatuation: DISORGANIZING AND DESTRUCTIVE ( negatibo ang epekto sau )
Love: ORGANIZING AND CONSTRUCTIVE ( magiiba ang ugali mo...for the better)
6. How do you see each other?
Infatuation: you live in a ONE person world ( akin ka lang! )
Love: you EXPAND your world ( kaibigan ko = kaibigan mo na rin..vice-versa )
7. How do others view you two?
Infatuation: FEW or NONE of your family and friends approve of your relationship ( ndi sila pabor or in
other words...illegal kau)
Love: MOST friends and your family aprove of your relationship ( LEGAL kau )
8. What does distance do?
Infatuation: DIES with distance ( Hindi pede sa inyo ang LDR or long distance relationship dahil
mamamatay lang ang inyong pagsusuyuan )
Love: SURVIVES AND EVEN GROWS ( imbis na mamatay ang inyong pagmamahalan...lalo pa itong mag-eexpand )
9. How do quarrels affect your relationship?
Infatuation: frequent misunderstandings ( ganito ang sequence nyan: away-bati-away )
Love: LIVES THRU ( away-bati-bati na talaga...period!...yung tipong sa next leap year pa kau ulit mag aaway )
10. How and when does it end?
Infatuation: it stops the same way it starts - FAST
Love: it stops the same way it starts - SLOWLY
11. How do you refer to each other?
Infatuation: you often use I, ME, MY, HE, SHE, HIM, HER ( puro pang isang tao lang )
Love: often use WE, US, OUR ( ina-associate nyo ang bawat isa as partners )
12. Are you selfish or selfless?
Infatuation: What it does to YOU? ( anu bang magagawa nito sa akin? )
Love: what it does to your partner and to your relationship ( anu bang magagawa nito sa amin? )
13. Are you jealous?
Infatuation: FREQUENT
Love: LESS FREQUENT
14. What is your overall attitude?
Infatuation: your concern is YOUR HAPPINESS ( magiging masaya ba ako? )
Love: your concern is HIS/HER HAPPINESS ( magiging masaya ba siya? )
What is Love?
Walang eksaktong eksplanasyon ang salitang ito. Ngunit ang perpektong pagmamahal ay nababalutan ng commitment o ang pagbibigay ng iyong sarili, oras, lakas, pati pera ng WALANG HINIHINGING KAPALIT. Kailngan ng KATAPATAN, MAKABULUHANG USAPAN, KOMUNIKASYON AT MALALIM NA PAGKAKAKILALA SA BAWAT ISA. Dapat ang concern mo LAGI ay ang kapakanan ng iyong minamahal.
What is Infatuation?
Ito ang tinatawag nating "ROMANTIC" na relasyon. Popular ding tawag dito ay PUPPY LOVE. Ang mga salitang madalas gamitin dito ay CRUSH, "GUSTO KITA", IN-LOVE AKO SAYO" at "BUKAS ANG ZIPPER MO" (joke). At syempre, hindi malayo dito ang paghalo ng SEXUAL ATTRACTION o MAKAMUNDONG PAGNANASA ( un na un..ok? ). Ang Infatuation na ito ay talaga nga namang exciting base na rin sa aking personal na karanasan. Ang ganitong karansan ay umuubos ng ating oras: "lagi mo naiisip ang crush mo", "day dreaming", "hallucinations" at kung malala ang tama mo, ULCER (di ka na kasi maka kain sa pag iisip sa crush mo).