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If you're not the one
then why thoes my soul feel glad today?
If you're not the one
then why does my hand fit your's this way?
If you are not mine
then why does your heart return my call
If you are not mine
would I have the strenght to stand at all

I never know what the future bring's
but I know you're here with me now
We'll make it through
and I hope you are the one
I share my life with.....

I don't wanna run away but I can't take it,
I don't understand
If I'm not made for you
then why does my heart tell me that I am?
Is there any way that I can stay in your arms?

If I don't need you
then why am I crying on my bed?
If I don't need you
then why does your name resound in my head?
If you're not for me
then why does this distance maim my life?
If you're not for me
then why do I dream of you as my wife?

I don't know why you're so far away
But I know that this much is true
We'll make it through
And I hope you are the one I share my life with
And I wish that you could be the one I die with
And I'm praying you're the one I build my home with
I hope I love you all my life

'Cause I miss you, body and soul so strong
that it takes my breath away
And I breathe you into my heart
and pray for the strenght to stand today
'Cause I love you, whether it's wrong or right
And though I can't be with you tonight
You know my heart is by your side

What hurts?...
- letting go of a person you've just learned to love
- reminiscing the good times you shared together
- shielding your heart to love somebody
- trying to hide what you really feel
- trying to hide the tears that involuntarily fall from
your eyes
- loving a person too much
- giving up someone you never thought of giving up
- having the right love at the wrong time
- taking the risk to fall in love again
- hiding your relationship from someone else
- controlling your feelings to avoid hurting a friend
- Thinking of him every waking and sleeping
moment
knowing all the while that he never even thinks a
single thought of you...
- letting go, because everytime you see the
person, you only fall deeper
- holding back only to find out when it's too
late,you both
felt the same way, but were only scared to lose
each other so
much that you didn't let the feelings out
- falling in love with someone you didn't mea n to
fall in love with
- finding the perfect guy with only one problem, he
doesn't love you
- helping the one you love "make ligaw" to your
friend
- seeing the one you love crying for someone else
- the waiting also hurts like hell
- Having to hear "... I've met someone"
- Agreeing to his wish to 'just be friends'.
- asking his freedom back because 'he'd be
happier with her'
- Asking you to 'forget that everything happened'
and be normal? friends again.
- you're only treated as a little sister
- sharing his future plans for the girl with you
- You stopped being friends because his girlfriend
asked him to.
- being denied in front of people
- telling you lies where he'd been when actually, he
was with a
'new friend' or an 'old flame' - he told you he'd be
leaving you t
o return to his ex
- breaking someone's heart
- Fighting for that one thing that would make you
happy that is, holding on to a person who can not
guarantee you his commitment unless he fix
himself...then, you are left hanging for
the moment...then he says, time will tell, but you
still decided to hope in him and trust him... -
PRETENDING you're OK when inside you're dying
- PRETENDING to be strong.... and
RECOGNIZING your weakness
- Lying in bed each night, thinking of that special
person you can never have...
- Being with someone you can't actually love...
- Pretending you don't love a person whom you
actually love...
- Being in love...
- letting go even if you really don't want to...
having
no right to
say you are hurting because it was your decision
- Seeing the person you love hurt because of
you...
and not being
able to help that person...
- having the courage to say I LOVE YOU to the
person you love
and finding out afterwards that things will never be
the same
again when he doesn't treat you with the same
closeness as before
- having to face the fact that someone is capable
of
completely
destroying the wall that you have set for yourself,
leaving you
weak and vulnerable
- admitting that you love someone despite his
imperfections
- finding out that the more you try to hate him, the
more you
end up loving him, perhaps even more than before
- Realizing how stupid your mistakes was that led
to your break-up.
- the thought that this guy, used to really love you
and you
loved him as well but you didn't give enough and
he
gave up on you
- Sharing the one you love with SOMEBODY
else..."
- Making a promise and realizing that when the
time has come
for that promise to be delivered, the commitment
is
no longer there.
- The hardest thing about love - believing it exists.
- After you've been hurt, learning to forgive,
learning
to trust and love again.

1. What is the major attraction?

Infatuation: physical appearance ( pogi/maganda kasi sya eh)
Love: total personality ( mabait, totoo, trustworthy)

2. How much factors attract?

Infatuation: FEW qualities of the person
Love: MANY qualities of the person

3. How does it start?

Infatuation: tends to start FAST
Love: starts SLOWLY

4. How consistent is your level of interest?

Infatuation: interest in each other COMES AND GOES ( crush mo sya ngaun...pero samakalawa ndi na )
Love: relationship tends to EVEN OUT ( Love mo sya ngaun...at un ay pangmatagalan na )

5. How does it affect your personality?

Infatuation: DISORGANIZING AND DESTRUCTIVE ( negatibo ang epekto sau )
Love: ORGANIZING AND CONSTRUCTIVE ( magiiba ang ugali mo...for the better)

6. How do you see each other?

Infatuation: you live in a ONE person world ( akin ka lang! )
Love: you EXPAND your world ( kaibigan ko = kaibigan mo na rin..vice-versa )

7. How do others view you two?

Infatuation: FEW or NONE of your family and friends approve of your relationship ( ndi sila pabor or in

other words...illegal kau)
Love: MOST friends and your family aprove of your relationship ( LEGAL kau )

8. What does distance do?

Infatuation: DIES with distance ( Hindi pede sa inyo ang LDR or long distance relationship dahil

mamamatay lang ang inyong pagsusuyuan )
Love: SURVIVES AND EVEN GROWS ( imbis na mamatay ang inyong pagmamahalan...lalo pa itong mag-eexpand )

9. How do quarrels affect your relationship?

Infatuation: frequent misunderstandings ( ganito ang sequence nyan: away-bati-away )
Love: LIVES THRU ( away-bati-bati na talaga...period!...yung tipong sa next leap year pa kau ulit mag aaway )

10. How and when does it end?

Infatuation: it stops the same way it starts - FAST
Love: it stops the same way it starts - SLOWLY

11. How do you refer to each other?

Infatuation: you often use I, ME, MY, HE, SHE, HIM, HER ( puro pang isang tao lang )
Love: often use WE, US, OUR ( ina-associate nyo ang bawat isa as partners )

12. Are you selfish or selfless?

Infatuation: What it does to YOU? ( anu bang magagawa nito sa akin? )
Love: what it does to your partner and to your relationship ( anu bang magagawa nito sa amin? )

13. Are you jealous?

Infatuation: FREQUENT
Love: LESS FREQUENT

14. What is your overall attitude?

Infatuation: your concern is YOUR HAPPINESS ( magiging masaya ba ako? )
Love: your concern is HIS/HER HAPPINESS ( magiging masaya ba siya? )

What is Love?

Walang eksaktong eksplanasyon ang salitang ito. Ngunit ang perpektong pagmamahal ay nababalutan ng commitment o ang pagbibigay ng iyong sarili, oras, lakas, pati pera ng WALANG HINIHINGING KAPALIT. Kailngan ng KATAPATAN, MAKABULUHANG USAPAN, KOMUNIKASYON AT MALALIM NA PAGKAKAKILALA SA BAWAT ISA. Dapat ang concern mo LAGI ay ang kapakanan ng iyong minamahal.

What is Infatuation?

Ito ang tinatawag nating "ROMANTIC" na relasyon. Popular ding tawag dito ay PUPPY LOVE. Ang mga salitang madalas gamitin dito ay CRUSH, "GUSTO KITA", IN-LOVE AKO SAYO" at "BUKAS ANG ZIPPER MO" (joke). At syempre, hindi malayo dito ang paghalo ng SEXUAL ATTRACTION o MAKAMUNDONG PAGNANASA ( un na un..ok? ). Ang Infatuation na ito ay talaga nga namang exciting base na rin sa aking personal na karanasan. Ang ganitong karansan ay umuubos ng ating oras: "lagi mo naiisip ang crush mo", "day dreaming", "hallucinations" at kung malala ang tama mo, ULCER (di ka na kasi maka kain sa pag iisip sa crush mo).

WELL tHaTZ OnE Of mY FaVoRiTe SoNgS!!!

Oh, love of my life
Destined forever
I will be right here
By your side
No falling tears
When we're together
You know the joy
You bring to me

Refrain:

Never, there'll be no other
We'll share as lovers
Right from the heart
From my mind to your soul
I will give it to you girl
My every little thing
That I'm more than willing
I will give to you

Chorus:
Forever starts from now
I promise you
Lovin' you is all
That I can do
No one can take it
Away from me
Nobody but you

Now is the time stars will be bright
Our bodies will groove
All through the night
Come take my hand
Then we will fly high
Come on baby hear me say

Repeat Refrain:
Repeat Chorus

Bridge:

There'll be no time
For sad goodbyes
Without you here
I can't get by
Don't you go away

Adlib:
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